The Ultimate Cheat Sheet on Kids and Reading
“My kid(s) hate(s) reading!” I can’t tell you how many times I have heard a parent say this very thing at book signings and events. But every time I hear it, it breaks my heart. There is no reason that a child should hate reading and there are several ways to encourage a love of reading in a child. I rarely have the opportunity at these events to have an in-depth conversation with parents about their children and reading, but if I did, here is what I would say:
1. Your child hasn’t read the right book. THE BOOK. Every avid reader knows what I’m talking about. That first book that grabs you as a kid and sticks with you. The one you re-read even today. When your child finds that book, believe me, he or she will be a reader.
2. Your child doesn’t like to read because you don’t like to. I see this one a lot. Parents can be very dismissive of reading in their own lives, but when it comes to their kids, they expect them to “do as I say, not as I do.” If you want your kids to love reading, try to love it too! Even if you only read with them, as long as you act as if you enjoy spending that time with them, they’ll enjoy it, too.
3. Your child may need a bridge. Huge books can be intimidating for a child, even small books can scare them away, especially if they struggle with reading or have only just begun to learn. Put yourself in their place. Imagine that you have taken one semester of French and suddenly, the teacher wants to read a book an inch thick! You would dread it, too! For this reason, I suggest starting with something less difficult. If you have to start with a comic book and then build to a spin-off series and then middle grade and then young adult, what’s the harm in that? Give them a book with a subject that is something they are interested in and they will usually read about it.
4. Try different avenues. In this day and age, there are so many options for reading that haven’t existed before. For example, all of my books in The Faire Pendant series are available on Amazon. Through Amazon, I have the opportunity to offer a free ebook copy with every print purchase. This can be downloaded on a phone, tablet, computer, etc. A parent or sibling can easily read the ebook copy along with a child and engage in conversations with them. Or use audiobooks while driving if needed! It can become a treasured and valuable part of your commute, believe me. Reading is a great tool to build conversation! Speaking of which….
5. Use books as a communication tool. So many books provide a moral that may be something a parent wants to talk about with their child. For example, self-confidence is the theme of my book, The Tale of Atterberry (The Faire Pendant Series Book 1)
6. Connect with an author. Many authors incorporate fun activities, news, events, and releases for their fans into their newsletters. Some answer fan mail and provide dates and locations for signings. Communicating with the author of a book can make it come alive for a child and become an exciting addition to reading that they never even considered.
In short, there are many different approaches that can be taken while encouraging a love of reading in your child. Using a hands-on and creative approach is usually the best way and can end up building a life-long “reading relationship” between a parent and child. I love hearing all about the creative ideas and fun activities readers think of from my stories. What is the last book you and your child read together? And what types of fun things did you like to do to encourage reading in your child?